Here’s to a New Adventure!

The journey of Mommyhood is an adventure all in itself, but my adventure is starting a new endeavor today. Today begins the new chapter in our lives with Joseph starting school in the evenings. I have so many emotions going through me all at one time. I am happy and excited that he has made the decision to further his education and what opportunities that it will open in the future with his job, but I would not be honest if I did not say I’m nervous, scared and a bit overwhelmed with the fact that this means I will basically be a married single mom during the week. I am truly thankful to have to family support that we have my parents and his parents that will be able to help me out some. This is not going to be just an adjustment on me, but a huge adjustment on the kids. I know that with the God on our side we will make it through this.

This week with Joseph starting school is not going to be a typical week because of a cruise to the Bahamas that has been booked since the beginning of this year. So not only does this mommy have the emotions with the new going to school adventure, but has the many emotions of being away from the kiddos. I am excited to get away for almost a week and to celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary in the Bahamas, but I am also having anxiety of being away from the kids in a way I have never been before. Taylor will turn five in less than two weeks and the furthest that I have been away from them was a five-hour car ride away. This trip is different, I will be on a boat in the Atlantic, I can’t get in a car and come home if something happens. I know that they will be fine and have a great time because they will be with their MawMaw & DaDa, but I am still a mommy with the mommy anxiety.  

I know that it is important that Joseph and I get this time away. With so many changes coming with him starting school that we need this time together. The only way we can take care of our children, is to make sure we take care of ourselves and our marriage too. So here’s to the new adventure and more mommy moments! Stay Tuned!



The Blessed Moments Mom


I needed That!

Today was one of those days that as a mom you are crying on the inside because your toddler is teething and nothing; I mean nothing is going to console her. She wants you to hold her, no wait a minute she wants to be put down, she wants something to drink…….oh not in that cup……..yes that cup…………wait this is milk not juice. I need to nap……………wait no I want to get out and play, oh the life of a teething toddler!  Oh but let’s add in 3 1/2 year old that is loving testing the boundaries and pushing the limits to see what he can get away with. Yes, it was one of those days! Mommy just wanted to escape for a few minutes. A teething toddler meant she took an earlier nap than she normally does. Since she was napping earlier, I decided to have her brother go down a little earlier than normal, since A. he woke up earlier than normal and B. this mommy wanted at least a few quiet minutes to herself. Okay, let’s be honest a few minutes to clean the house. No such luck within 30 minutes of Taylor going down for nap Emersyn woke up. Fixed her lunch and then we were going to play. Apparently, she thought we were going to play outside because she brought me my flip-flops and said “Outside”. She was a little disappointed when she realized we were not going outside and really upset when I blocked of the hallway to keep her from being able to her brother’s room. Yes, she loves to go in his room and wake him up, ah, she just loves to go in his room and climb in his bed. Well she could not make her way to his room, but she managed to wake him up with her screaming. Yes, screaming…..not crying because there was no tears, not even the first little tear. So here, it is 12:15 and on a normal day both of them are napping or about to fall asleep and not one but both of them were wide-awake. I knew in that moment it was going to be a long long afternoon! Later that afternoon when my husband got home, I told him I need just five minutes to myself; I just need to be able to hear myself think. Something all moms can relate too. Into our bedroom I went, closing the door behind me. I went sat in the rocking chair in our bedroom. The Oh so comfortable cushioned oversized rocking chair that I had rocked both my babies in. I grabbed my 3 Minute Devotions for Women book. I decided at that moment, I was going to just close my eyes and pick a random page to read. Well I was thinking I was randomly picking but deep down I knew that it was God’s way of picking the one that I need in that moment. God never fails us and he didn’t fail me in that moment, he knew exactly what I needed to hear.

With joy, you will draw neat water from the wells of salvation. (Isaiah 12:3 NIV) The prayer at the end of the devotion said “Lord, thank you for saving me. Thank you for being the living water, my continual source of peace, comfort, strength and joy. Cause me to remember that my life is hidden in Yours. Amen

He knew that is just what I need to hear in that moment of being overwhelmed and needing a break. We can always count on the word of God to fill us in the moments we feel empty. Therefore, moms when you feel overwhelmed, stressed, or tired turn to the word of God. He is the only one that can fill you up on what you are missing. His word is what gives me strength and it will give you strength as well.  Leaning on the word of God is what gets me through my day.

Allie’s Big Adventure

summer fun 021Leave it to our four-legged child to turn our evening completely upside down. It was like any other day and I had let Al’s out to take care of her business. She came back to the backdoor and barked to come back inside and in typical Allie fashion she just sits there when I open the door to let her back inside. Therefore, I close the door back and let her sit outside until she finally decides that she wants to come back in. Well Taylor and Emersyn are sitting at the table eating their dinner, when Taylor asks for a slice of cheese. When I open the cheese slice up for him, a small piece breaks off. I decide to give that little piece to Allie because I know that will get her to come back inside the house. Yes, Al’s never turns down food. Well when I open the door she does not come, which isn’t unusual, but what was unusual was she was nowhere to be seen. I thought maybe she is behind the shed, so I call her name and nothing. She is nowhere to be seen and that is when I realize that somehow the gate on the privacy fence has come open somehow. My heart sinks and panic sets in. I can see the worry come over Taylor’s face when he realizes that Allie is not in the backyard and has went missing. I immediately call my husband to see how close to being home he was. I sit at the table with Taylor and Emersyn and we begin close our eyes and begin to pray. 

Dear Heavenly Fathers,

We come to you asking you to look after and keep Allie safe on her adventure.

Lord, we know that if it is your will she will come home safely too us. Lord, we put this all

In your hands. 


(Taylor) “Please bring Allie back so I can pet her please”

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I send text to my mother in-law and to my sister, asking them to pray, because Allie had gotten out of the backyard. My husband pulls in the driveway from looking in the neighborhood and my heart sinks again when he does not have Allie with him. He comes in to get her leash so he can go back out looking in the neighborhood for her. Taylor is asking me “where is Allie? Where did she go?” I realize that there is still a good possibility that Allie may not come back to us. I have Taylor come sit on the couch with me and I try my best to let him know that Allie may not come home to us. That even though we prayed to God to bring Allie home safely to us, that Allie might not come home. God may have other plans for Allie. God does not always give us what we want but will always give us what we need. 

My sister text me back and says they are going to come over and help look for her. My, mother in-law text me and says that she will go Columbia Rd to go home and look. Yes, our neighborhood is very close to a very busy road. Therefore, I knew the possibility of her being hit by a car or truck was extremely high. Just then, something told me to look out the front door, when I did I saw Miss Allie McBeals across the street. I open the front door and she came running and ran into the living room. Our prayers were answered. The pure excitement on Taylor and Emersyn’s face was priceless. You could at that moment see the love that those too have for their Allie Girl. 

I am so thankful that God looked after Allie and brought her back safely to us. I know there are a lot of families never have the same outcome that we had. We are truly blessed that Allie returned home safely and uninjured. I am not exactly sure where all Allie went on her adventure, but what I do know is she came back wet and muddy…so it must have been a great adventure. Al’s big adventure led to showing and demonstrating the power of prayer with Taylor. We never know what God is going to use has a teaching tool for us. 

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Today something hit me that I was not expecting

Today something hit me that I was not expecting………Where did my baby go! It seems just like yesterday we were anticipating the arrival of our baby boy and now he will be starting a Mother’s Day our program in a little over two months. This morning we were just going down to the church so that I could help get the room ready for VBS that starts next week. Here we are walking the same walk we do every Sunday, the only thing different was that Taylor was carrying his new lunch bag, since I needed to pack them a lunch for today.  Now Taylor had been in a childcare center from the time he was six weeks old until he turned three.  I have only been a stay at home mom with him and his sister for seven months and because of that, I thought that when he starts the mother’s day out program in August it would not be that hard on me. Well I was wrong, today I got somewhat of a taste of what it is going to be like dropping him off for school in August. Her he was walking beside me with his little backpack on and carrying his lunch box, he looked so much older and yes, this Mommy had tears in her eyes. Tears in my eyes and we he was only going into a classroom today while I helped get the VBS classroom that I am volunteering in ready. If that put tears in my eyes what in the world, am I going to do when he starts school in August? As we walked up the sidewalk to the Family Life Center at the Church, Taylor turned and asked me in a voice of uncertainty “Mama, you going to leave me here?”  My heart sank a little because what  I thought was going to be easier on both of us in August came screaming at me that it was going to be harder and more emotional on both of us. He is so use to the fact that when he was in childcare, mommy was right down the hallway because that is where I worked. We have been talking about him starting a new school in August and that I would drop him off at school and then would come back to pick him up. I think today with him carrying his lunch box that he knows is for school in August made it seem a little more of a reality to him.

He did great when I dropped him off in the classroom, no tears, but this mommy realized she would be the one that would have the tears when he starts school in August. I have two months to prepare myself for when he starts school. Yes, there are moments that I wish school was starting tomorrow for him, but every mom has those moments. I know he needs to get back into a routine of school because he will be starting Pre-K next year and before I realize it he will be graduating college.  I have always been the one to give parents tips on making the drop off easier. Now I am finding myself having to implement those tips on myself.

Tips for making dropping off at preschool, daycare, or mother’s day out easier:

  • Give them a hug and kiss, tell them you love them and you will be back. Then as hard as it is and it will be hard, you have to just turn and walk out the door. I promise the longer you hang around the classroom the harder you are making it for the both of you.
  • Yes, they may cry and that is normal. 9 times out of 10 before you make it out the building, the tears have stopped and they are perfectly happy and playing. Most of the time the tears are just to see if you are actually going to leave them there, once they realize you are leaving they go on about their day.
  • Do you best to look as comfortable as possible because they will feed off your emotions.
  • Remember that when you come back to pick up, they may be crying but that does not mean they have been that way all day long. Now I don’t mean they can look at a clock and say oh mommy will be here soon and start crying, but they do learn their routine and anxiety can start to build back into them when it gets near the time you normally pick up.
  • It is also important to remember that every child is different. It may take your child two days to adjust, two weeks to adjust or even two months to adjust, but they will get there. Consistency and patience is the key.

Mama, Mama, MAMA………I Need You!!!!!!!!!!

Moms we all know those days……..those days where we here Mama, Mama,, MAMA, I neeeeeddddddd you! I’m hungry, I need a drink, find my shoe, I wanna snack, and the famous word Why…….a zillion times a day! the house was still quiet. It was strange not hearing the “Mama Mama, Mommy, I neeeeedddddddd you, I need a snack, find my red race car, here hold this!”  Let’s be honest hearing that a zillion times a day does seem to be irritating at times, but I quickly realized how much I missed that sweet little voice during the day when he is off spending time with his Grandparents. Mom’s savor those moments of hearing those little voices say Mommy a zillion times a day, because it will all be gone way too soon!May Mania 2015 130

Every morning it seems that my two precious children have grown so much over night and not just physically but mentally and spiritually. The deep conversations that I find myself engaging in with my three-year old blow me away at times. A few weeks ago when we closed on the house we had been renting, I had left the house earlier that morning with Taylor and Emersyn to go to the bank and to the grocery store. The conversation that I found myself in with Taylor completely caught me by surprise and blew my mind away with his awareness of the love of God and Jesus. Taylor loves school buses and even pretends my car is a school bus at times. We were passing by the medical office building where Taylor’s “New Maw Maw works, (yes, this is what he calls one of his grandma’s) when Taylor said, “look at that red school bus!” I explained to him that red bus was the blood mobile and that people go on that bus to donate some of their blood. That when people donate their blood it can help save someone’s life. He responds “like Jesus?” Talk about chills coming over someone, Wow that just came out of my three-year olds mouth, I couldn’t believe he was able to put that together and associate it like that. I know I had never even begun to think of linking someone donating their blood to help save a life to the saving that Jesus did for all of us. I told him he was exactly right, Jesus saved us all by the shedding of his blood when he was nailed to the cross. I knew at moment, my husband I were definitely doing something right as parents. Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6 ESV)  Parents, our children are very much impacted by our actions and what we have them engage in……….we need to make sure we have positive impact on our children. We say a blessing before every meal. We hold hands when we are blessing the food or just in prayer together. At bedtime, we read Good Night Devos 365 Bedtime Devotions for Little Boys. The book can be found on Amazon, Barnes, and Nobles.May Mania 2015 102

Children learn from the example that we set and how can I expect my children to walk with God if my husband and I do not demonstrate walking with God. Parenting is not “do as I say and not as I do” We must demonstrate with our actions how we want our children to behave…..key word “want”. Now even when we set a positive example, our children will still make wrong choices and that is okay because those are also learning and growing experiences. There are numerous challenges that face parents. My goal with my children is to do my best to raise Godly children that has the ability to discern the challenges that the world will throw at them. It is our job as parents to teach our children, it is not the role of the world to teach our children.

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I am amazed daily at what God teaches me through my children, especially with my Taterbug. I mentioned early the Good Night Devos that my son and I read at night before bedtime, well the other night the devotion was teaching me patience…literally!  We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps. (Proverbs 16:9 NLT) The devotion was on patience and God’s timing. Taterbug always wants to read the Baby in the Basket, the story about Moses, in his Bible stories book. That night I suggested that we read a different story that night. Now our nightly devotion had just been about patience and timing, well Taylor was taking Taterbug timing picking out a different story to read. God was putting the devotion into action that night because he was testing to see how well my patience was going to be. We never know when God is going to test us. Patience, Patience and more Patience is what parenting requires!!!!!!!!!! The mamas, mama, mama, MAMA that I hear thousand times a day test my patience.

Taterbug: Mama

Me: Yes, Taylor

Taterbug: Mama

Me: Yes, Taylor what do you need?

Taterbug: Mama

Me: WHAT TAYLOR, just tell me what you need to say or ask, PLEASE!!!!!!

Taterbug: Mama…… I luv youuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!

Talk about feeling very low at that point. Patience, Patience, Patience when the Mama, Mama, Mama, MAMA comes.